Subject: How much longer? Posted: Wednesday, December 4, 2013 - 10:24:54
I feel really fed up.
I have posted on here before to say I have to go back to court as ex has not obeyed a Consent Order which was a financial settlement dated back in October 2007.
Got a date to go to court this week, However my solicitor rang today to say that my ex has changed his solicitor and wants an adjourement as new solicitor needs time to get all paperwork in order. So it\'s all been put back.Why my ex has changed solicitor I can only but guess.
Anyway, I just feel fed up and wonder if it\'s ever going to be sorted out.
Apologies for the rant!!
Posted: Wednesday, December 4, 2013 - 10:24:29
Hang in there mate! Things can only get better...
Posted: Wednesday, December 4, 2013 - 10:31:47
I am sorry the Court has not given you closure. It rarely does. Yes, you need to enforce it but look for happiness outside of the court process and not with him is my advice. It is a shame that men have no faith in the legal system but we cannot change that at this time, although in the longer term it will be better, people now are casualties, you and him caught up in the bad fight, try to compartmentalise it, all the best.
Posted: Wednesday, December 4, 2013 - 10:24:54
Thank you both very much for your kind words. I feel a lot better today and realise he is a silly little man who is desperate to hang on and think he is in control of a situation that soon he is not going to have any choice over.
I do count my blessings. Kids who are great, a bloke I\'ve been seeing for nearly a year, friends who are always there for me, my parents and my job which is thoroughly absorbing to keep my mind off my problems (clue is in my username)!
The thing is I just want it over so I can move on, pay my debts and feel there is a future. He has done his best to drag it out, taken my son, accuse me of everything but will not talk to me at all. I\'ve done my best to behave fairly especially regarding the kids. But I wanted the divorce so have to pay and pay and pay ......
A friend has said that it makes no sense to change solicitors 2.5 years into a divorce and probably ex has pi**ed off old solicitors, had to pay them and then start again with new firm which is why they need time to get it all sorted. My sol has given them 2 weeks as opposed to the month they were requesting so hopefully it will come to court again quite soon. Hopefully before the Earth gets sucked into the Sun.
What an awful lot of misery divorce brings eh?