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madonna37

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Subject: Life is fair after all Posted: Wednesday, December 4, 2013 - 10:24:49

Just wanted to share my happiness with you guys. My ex left me for this woman (I came to know about his affair very late). Now she has left him for another man. One of our friends told me that he is dumps right now. I know I shouldn’t be feeling happy but come on! I am only human. What goes around, comes around.

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Posted: Wednesday, December 4, 2013 - 10:24:29

Good for you! Yes, life is always fair in the end. We just need to be patient and reap its rewards!

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Posted: Wednesday, December 4, 2013 - 10:34:41

mmm... (wo)man who craves revenge, first diggs two graves... still... justice is not revenge... and it can make you feel like the world is ok... be mindfull that no amount of upset for someone else can cure your own pain... still i could help but suppress a smile- ;-)

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Posted: Wednesday, December 4, 2013 - 10:39:14

LOL......happy new year!!! I agree about the Justice thing obi....definately makes a person feel good. Madonna, just be mindful that your ex doesnt decide to come a knocking on your door again.....it does happen...

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Posted: Wednesday, December 4, 2013 - 10:39:57

Great stuff madonna My the love of my ex\'s life left him a couple of months after he left me for her - I know it shouldn\'t, but it feels soooooooo good doesn\'t it! Oddly enough, I did feel a little sorry for him but the overwhelming feeling was.... HAHAHAHAHA!

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Posted: Wednesday, December 4, 2013 - 10:39:18

Yes, revenge is worth it. Like Ess\'s ex, my ex left me for OW who dumped him a few months later. That felt good. He\'s now remarried to someone else but has been very grumpy this past month and I\'m looking forward to hearing the happy news of their breakup lol. Last time I ended up feeling sorry for him, but next time I\'ll just enjoy it.

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Posted: Wednesday, December 4, 2013 - 10:29:05

They say it comes and bites you on the arse and boy he must have huge chunks missing from his, Ok he probably feels life is unfair right now but hey Karma. I think I too would feel sorry for my ex if his relationship failed for about 2 secs and then think now you can see how it feels to be cheated on. LOL I too agree about the justice thing but yeah must have felt quite good :-) Have a good 2009 xx

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Posted: Wednesday, December 4, 2013 - 10:34:41

there is nothing like the feeling of \'mmm... now you really KNOW how i felt\'

madonna37

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Posted: Wednesday, December 4, 2013 - 10:24:49

That is so true obi! I feel good that now he knows what it TRULY feels like even though he kept saying I know how you feel and all that when he was acting like a jerk. Yes Ess, it does feel soooooooooooo good! This news just made my new year!

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Posted: Wednesday, December 4, 2013 - 10:34:41

yes- its wrong to take pleasure in another\'s pain... ;-)

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Posted: Wednesday, December 4, 2013 - 10:28:15

Funny how often this happens : )

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Posted: Wednesday, December 4, 2013 - 10:34:41

must share this with you all... my mate has been through a lot... his wife gave him the ol\' \'we have nothing in common so you need to move out and go back to your mums...\' two weeks later- new man in his house- from \'you can see the kids anytime\' to \'you can see them when i say...\' got to bottom... then... house transfered, met someone else and now... they are in love- lots of money, his kids have made mums life hell because she restricted contact- so he sees them often.. and.... her new man isnt quite what she expected and cracks are appearing... lol...

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Posted: Wednesday, December 4, 2013 - 10:39:35

I agree if you wait long enough you can see how fair it all is. My ex\'s new wife (4 years) has given up paid employment to support him cos he\'s under so much stress. Paaleeeasse - she\'s such a light weight! Even daughter (very neutral and loyal to us both) says - I work sixteeen hours a week and go to college to do A/s levels what the f**k stress is he under?

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Posted: Wednesday, December 4, 2013 - 10:39:11

Tania! Long time no see on these boards. Well, if he didn\'t feel stress before she gave up work, then I bet he does now! That\'s what my ex\'s wife tried to do as well, but he made her get a job. Well six years down the line for me since my days of desperate posting on here. The old adage \"what goes around, comes around\" is true. My ex has been giving his wife (an ex friend and neighbour of mine) the runaround for about 4 years now. A couple of brief affairs that I know of, a confession to our 19 year old daughter that he has taken to using the services of prostitutes when he travels away on business (my poor daughter is so disgusted with him) and finally a full blown affair with his cousin\'s wife. He left his wife a few months ago only to return with his tail between his legs when she produced divorce papers and his mistress was not willing to put the money up for a new house. Ex told my daughters he was desperately unhappy, had made the biggest mistake of his life when he split up the family and apologised to them ... hmmm. Just before Christmas he announced to our daughters that he was going to leave his wife and set up home with the mistress that he had continued to see secretly (she finally agreed to stump up some money) but he would wait until after his holiday with wife to the Maldives! The carnage that he caused continues and I am so glad that I can watch from the sidelines with a lot of amusement and a tiny bit of smugness.

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Posted: Wednesday, December 4, 2013 - 10:39:35

Hi Nancy, I\'m still on the same email address. Firstname hasn\'t changed, surname a welsh actor (dead), all lower case, no spaces or dots @hotmail.com Happy new year, xT
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